PinnedRealizationI am not sure that I was really aware of my needs for almost three decades. I definitely ignored them.Jul 24Jul 24
Being Misgendered: Mistaking the Battle for the WarHow Outrage at Being Misgendered Causes Us to Cede Our Transness to OthersOct 14Oct 14
Privilege, Virtue Signaling & The Long GameMake Your Trans Vote Do Something More Than Burnish Your Self ImageOct 11Oct 11
My Love AddictionI recently went through a breakup. At least, it felt like a breakup. We had only really known each other a week or two. However, the…Sep 14Sep 14
Choosing A NameWhen I chose my name I settled on Hana. Pronounced Haahna, with an ‘a’ like ‘arsenal’ instead of like ‘apple’, and said quickly like an…Jul 27Jul 27
Old Lady at Trader Joe’sMy eyes are different in the morning. I see in a different way. Catch glimpses of possibilities under the barely lifted veil of day. Maybe…Jul 27Jul 27
9–10–23: Reflections on Transness and ReI woke up to the sound of rain drops. The Los Angeles rain where the drops are in a sparse dance with no particular time signature. Just…Sep 10, 2023Sep 10, 2023